Tuesday, August 16, 2011
week 6
I only have 1 more p-day at the mtc! crazy. This week has been good. I got a new companion on wednesday. She's going to Bulgaria like sister meyers. She's about 5'1" and she has curly brown hair. She's way cute. I like her very much. Her name is CECTPA Tate. She's in LA today doing visa stuff with the elders in her district. She left at 4 in the morning and she'll get home tonight. I also have 2 new roommates who will be serving in Arizona.
Oh, I forgot to say last week, but I'm coordinating sister for my zone now. That means I make sure the sisters in my zone are doing well and that they're keeping the rules. My zone has 4 sisters serving english missions, and sister Izatt and me. We have 4 more english sisters coming in on wednesday, one from new zealand. so now sister Izatt is the music coordinator for our zone so i don't have to do both jobs.
At TRC this week we had 2 serbians: Alit and Nikola, so that was pretty cool. We talked about receiving revelation through church attendance, and we challenged the volunteers to write down questions or what they wanted to learn this sunday before going to church. I would recommend that to everyone reading this too. I have found that whenever I specifically am listening for how I can better help my investigators come unto Christ, or if I have questions I want answered and I'm listening for answers, I always get a lot more out of the church service than when I don't.
This sunday we heard from the general primary president, Rosemary Wixom. it was pretty cool. I got to talk to her for a minute afterwards and she told me to love the children of Croatia. I already planned on doing that.
President Samuelson, the president of BYU, came to speak last tuesday. it sort of felt like I was getting the back to school devotional once again. It's weird to think that they'll be starting in just 2 weeks or so, but I won't be going there. This will be my first year without marching band for 7-8 yrs, and my first year without being in school for over 15 yrs. weird.
I love you all and hope you have a wonderful week. Ja znam da Bog voli vas i ako slijedite Isusa Krista, Bog će blagosloviti vas da ćete imati radost i mir.
God loves you! never forget that. Be diligent in reading the Book of Mormon. I know that following the counsel in that book will bring you closer to Christ than anything else.
Love,
Sestra Black
Tuesday, August 9, 2011
Crazy week
This week has been very interesting to say the least. On Thursday, Sister Meyers and Elder Seymour, the other Bulgarian missionary, found out that they didn't have everything done for their visas, and there was a chance that their exit date might be delayed. We also learned that President Rowe, wanted more missionaries in Serbia, so one Slovenian and one Croatian elder are now learning Serbian with only 3 weeks left to learn it. Luckily, Croatian and Serbian are virtually the same language besides the alphabet, but the Slovenian elder now needs to re-learn a lot. They're great elders, and they'll be fine, but it's way stressful for them. Oh, and that also means that the other Slovenian elder is now the only one in his class, and he's a solo missionary, so until this morning, we had 5 solo missionaries, 3 sisters and 2 elders, which is pretty much unheard of.
TRC on Thursday was good. We talked to the volunteers about revelation through the book of mormon. Instead of preaching to them, we just read some verses of Alma 5 and talked about them and about applying the scriptures to your life and listening to what the spirit has to tell you, whether it relates to what you're reading or not.
On Friday, we learned that Sestra Meyers and Elder Seymour were most likely not going to Bulgaria any time soon, so their flight had been cancelled, and they would be given a temporary reassignment in the United states. It was sort of fun to guess where they'd go, like it was a new mission call, but it was sad as well. Bulgaria is having a huge celebration this week for the 20 yr aniversary of the church in Bulgaria, and they were excited about going to it. and they're ready to leave the MTC.
On Saturday, we were about to go to personal study, but our schedule was changed and we were told to go to a workshop instead. It was about teaching with the Holy Ghost. As part of the workshop, the teacher pretended to be an investigator, and the elders started to teach him and ask him questions about religion in his life, trying to persuade him of the truth of the gospel. Then Sister Meyers spoke and just simply testified of truths of the Gospel, not trying to convince or prove anything, just to tell him of God's love for him and His plan, and all of a sudden, the spirit of God filled the room, and the whole tone of the discussion changed. It was amazing.
Monday afternoon, Sister Meyers and Elder Seymour were called to the travel office, and they were told that her visa had just arrived, and they were leaving this morning at 4 am. crazy, huh? Last night we stayed up until 12:30-1 packing and such, and we got up to take her luggage to the travel office just before 4, so I didn't get much sleep last night, but all is well. My companion's on a plane to Bulgaria! We were all so excited.
Cool Croatian trivia: hvala=thanks, hvaliti=to praise
I think to truly praise and worship God, we need to really be focus on gratitude.
otkupitelj=redeemer, kupiti=to buy. Our lives are not our own. Our souls were bought for a huge price. We have so much to be grateful for.
I love you! Have an awesome week, I'll say more next week. Only 3 more weeks until I go to Croatia!
Love,
Sestra Crn
(Sister Black :)
Tuesday, August 2, 2011
Hello again
This week has been pretty good. Most exciting news of the week: We're leaving a week early!!!! Our new departure date is August 29 instead of September 5. Brat Morris wrote it on the board in Croatian, and then he left to become our investigator, Srdan, so it was a little while before we paid attention to it, and a little while longer until we figured out what it said, but once we found out, we were so excited. I'll probably send some pictures from that day.
I forgot to say last week, but we've had some new roomates for the past couple weeks. They are 3 sisters going to Desmoines, Iowa: Sister Madsen, Sister Brown, and Sister Neville (pronounced like Cruella DeVil, or however you spell it, but with an N) I like them very much. It makes it a little harder to get to bed on time though with 6 sisters in the room. They've had a lot of trials hit them in just the few weeks they've been here with medical and family things, but they're very strong girls, so they're pulling through.
I got a letter from the sister missionaries in Osijek this week. They figure that's where I'll probably start because sister Laws, one of the sisters there, is the one who I'm replacing. So, my trainer will probably be sister Creager. I'm so excited to go to Croatia.
I got a haircut this morning. I got 4ish inches off.
Oh, Charissa: I ran into a Sister Morgan last night, and she says her sister was your companion. It's a small world when you're a mormon missionary.
I played a flute duet in sacrament meeting this week. One of the roomates going to Iowa was a flute major at byu and she brought some duets. Sister Meyers accompanied us. We played "I stand all amazed". It was fun.
Oh, that reminds me: Sister Madsen, the one who plays the flute, had a birthday on Friday. We decorated the room with baloons and streamers for her birthday. It was a lot of fun. The cleaning check people wrote on our cleaning check report thing that it made their day to see our room.
Starjesine Mulder and Armond also had birthdays last week. Sister Meyers got 20 cupcakes from her mom the same morning as elder Armond's birthday, which is the exact number of elders in the 2 foreign language districts. It was great.
This week for TRC I taught with Elder Adams about prayer. We taught Sister Carter and a return missionary who we hadn't taught before. At first I was wishing we could teach someone besides our teacher because we teach her all the time as a progressing investigator, but it was a lot of fun to teach her as herself when she wasn't pretending to be someone else. We started off with reading Enos 1:4-8, and then we discussed how we could improve the quality of our prayers. God not only wants us to speak to Him, but He wants to speak with us. We could probably all do more listening and pondering with our prayers.
Volim vas! Bog voli vas!
I love you!
Sestra Black
Tuesday, July 26, 2011
July 26, 2011
This week has been good...a lot like the last two weeks, but good. On Tuesday evening at the devotional, they took a picture of all the missionaries in the MTC. This is the second time they've ever done it, the last time being 10 yrs ago. so if you've ever been to the MTC and seen the panoramic picture of everyone, I'm in the new one they just took like that.
Thursday was the first time we taught in the TRC. We were lucky enough to have a volunteer from Serbia who has only been a member of the church for 15 months I think. He was pretty awesome. We didn't have too long to teach him, and at the rate we speak Croatian, it takes a lot of time to get anything across, but we got to know him for a few minutes, and then we talked about faith, how it motivates us to action, and how those actions in turn build our faith. We asked him to read Moroni 7 and then to make a goal of how he could strengthen his faith, and we made goals as well. I love the new way they do TRC. It's awesome.
One of the progressing investigators we've been teaching is named Marilena (she's actually Sestra Carter, one of our teachers). Yesterday we taught her probably the best lesson that Starjesina Mulder and I have ever taught. We were planning on teaching about the plan of salvation, but we ended up just talking about the holy ghost and prayer, that God is our father and he wants to hear from us, and that he is willing to give us knowledge that we seek. Even though Marilena isn't actually a real person, it's amazing how the spirit still tells me what she needs to hear and what will help her be happier and come closer to Christ.
So, the 50 words a day goal didn't quite work. I learned 150 words last week, which is still a lot, but not quite the 250 I planned to do. That was still a lot of words.
The temple is open again! I'm so glad. We get to go there later today. I'm excited.
So, I learned on Wednesday that the sister missionaries have been moved from Zagreb to a city farther east, i think it's called something like Osijek. so now they're there and in Zadar.
I didn't get a lot of sleep last night. First of all, I had a lot of trouble falling asleep, and second of all, at 2am I was woken up by the most shrill fire alarm I've ever heard. maybe it was more shrill because I was asleep, but it was pretty loud and obnoxious. I was so confused; I had no idea what was going on for like 2 minutes. Then we sat outside for a few minutes until they said we could go back to bed.
I've decided that 2 Nephi is pretty much my favorite chapter in all of the scriptures. read it if you get a chance, even if you've never read it, or if you've read it a million times. It's awesome. (scriptures.lds.org)
I decided to read the whole book of mormon before leaving the mtc. that's about 10 pages a day. I've really enjoyed doing that. It's great to read a little at a time, but there's something special about reading it fast all at once. I love that book
That's my week. Thank you for your prayers and support. I love you all. I know that God loves you and knows everything that you go through. Turn to him and you will see his power blessing your life. Have a wonderful week!
Love,
Sestra Black
Tuesday, July 19, 2011
week 2
This week has been really good. I love being a missionary. I'm learning the language really fast, but I still get really frustrated that I know how to say very little, and it takes a century just to say one sentence. I'm glad I have patient teachers.
I talked to my teacher, Sister Carter, who got back from Croatia a year ago, and she says there are only 2 cities where sister missionaries serve--Zadar and Zagreb. There are only 4 sisters currently in Croatia. One has been in Croatia for 3 weeks now, 2 have been there for 11ish, and 1 is coming home when I go out. So when I get out there, my trainer will have been out there for only 4 months. Crazy, huh?
They've been making a lot of changes here in the MTC in how they're teaching us. Because they've been putting so much more emphasis on having us focus on the needs of the people we're teaching and tailoring our lessons to what they need in their lives, there are a lot of changes. For instance, the people who we're teaching in the TRC are no longer supposed to pretend to be not members of the church. They're supposed to be themselves, and we're supposed to help them, as members, come closer to Christ by teaching the basic principles of the gospel. We still teach during class to our teachers and each other as we pretend to not be members of our church though. On Friday, we learned that the investigator we had been teaching was actually the Slovenian teacher, who also knows Croatian. It made it more real though to not know who he was.
Now we're teaching Marilena, who is actually Sister Carter, one of my teachers, but she's pretending to be a non-practicing Catholic from Zagreb. It's so much easier to understand her than Uroš, our old investigator. Partly because she wasn't throwing in Slovenian words, but partly because she talks more slowly.
I watched the new Joseph Smith movie on Sunday. It's really good. I would highly recommend it. It's made from the old one that they showed in visitors' centers, but they've taken out a lot of stuff and added other scenes.
So, some elders in my district have decided that they will learn 50 words a day, besides Sundays and P-days, and I couldn't have them passing me up, so I'm doing it with them. It's crazy. That's a lot of words to memorize in one day. I've still got 13 words left to catch up from yesterday. The elders in my district are so good at memorizing. It's not fair.
Wow, 30 minutes isn't very long. I need to get better at writing these.
I know that God lives and loves me. I know that the Book of Mormon testifies of Jesus Christ as does the Bible. We can find more happiness in life by reading those books than by any other book. I love you all. Have a wonderful week.
Sestra Ariana Black
PS- thanks to whoever sent the cookies. they were very yummy.
Also, someone who knows Sabina could tell her that her email didn't go through, that would be great.
Tuesday, July 12, 2011
First Week at the MTC
Dobar Dan!
I love it here at the MTC. I have the most awesome district and companions. I'm a solo sister, which means I'm the only sister going to Croatia right now. There are 7 other elders going to Croatia, and 2 elders going to Slovenia in my district.
My companions are wonderful. I have one companion named Sestra Izatt, and one named CECTPA Meyers. Sestra Izatt is going to the Czech Republic. She's 6 ft tall, blonde, and looks like a super model, only prettier. She is very friendly and has a wonderful testimony. She left a boyfriend at home. She has a wonderful laugh. CECTPA (that's sestra in cyrillic) Meyers is going to bulgaria. She's my height, and she looks like rapunzel from tangled after her hair got cut off. (or that's what one of her teachers told her yesterday). She has one of the most gorgeous singing voices I've ever heard. She has been here for 4 weeks already, so she keeps Sestra Izatt and me on top of things. She's such a good quiet example. I look up to her a lot. I want to be like her.
I love learning Croatian. One of the nicest things about it is that there are no articles, and not as many verb forms as in other languages i've studied. Our district is doing a pilot program where, instead of starting out teaching in english and then switching to our language when we actually know it, we're only teaching in croatian. this is the first Croatian district to do this program. It's sorta scary because my second full day here, I was teaching a lesson about the gospel in Croatian. We did a lot of reading in that lesson. Pretty much all we could do was say a prayer and testify that God loves us. Oh, and I accidentally had him read John 4:16 instead of John 3:16. Don't do that. It doesn't exactly teach the same doctrine... I about died laughing when I went back to my classroom and found out what he'd read. But our pretend investigator kept a straight face the whole time. I don't know how he did it.
There is a huge focus in the MTC on getting to know the person you're teaching well and seing them as God sees them, and then showing them how the gospel will bless their lives personally. As representatives of Jesus Christ, it's our responsability to show people how much God loves them and how much God wants to make them happy through his plan of Salvation.
I love this gospel. I know that God lives! I know that Jesus is His son, and it is only through His name that we can be saved. I know that Joseph Smith resored the church and priesthood of Jesus Christ to this earth today and that a prophet speaks today.
I love you all!
Sestra Ariana Black
Crkva Isusa Krista Svetaca Posljednjih Dana
Friday, July 8, 2011
Contact information for Ariana at the missionary training center
Sister Ariana Black
MTC Mailbox #103
Slovenia-Croatia 0905
2005 N 900 E
Provo, UT 84604
Remember: you can send me letters for free at www.dearelder.com!
Mission = Provo MTC
Mailbox number=103
Mission=Slovenia-Croatia
Departure date=0905
Tuesday, July 5, 2011
Sunday, April 10, 2011
Lydia update
Yesterday we left her in her crib alone for a few minutes and she pulled out her trach tube and threw it out of the crib. Fortunately I heard her distress from where I was sitting about 15 feet away, and we had her breathing with a good airway within maybe a minute of when she started turning blue. We got to tell the 911 dispatcher that she was OK after all, so no ambulance this time, but now we are skittish about her ever leaving our direct line of sight when she’s awake. Sigh. This is way too much adrenaline.
Oh, and to correct my last post, I forgot to count her albuterol inhaler, so really she takes 3 meds. Still, that’s way better than when she was in the hospital.
Thursday, April 7, 2011
Lydia's getting better
She is down to only one medication, plus the thyroid supplementation she had been on before her pneumonia. But at night she is still on a ventilator. It drives us crazy with alarm messages that often are spurious but which, especially after last Tuesday, we can't ignore.
Wednesday, March 30, 2011
A brief reverse
(How’s that for an opening line?)
We had way too much excitement night before last, but all is well again. Around 12:30 a.m. early Tuesday morning, apparently something obstructed Lydia’s airway and suctioning did not clear it. Her oxygen saturation kept dropping and she became unconscious and stopped breathing. Breathing for her with an Ambu bag wasn’t expanding her chest, and we ended up doing an emergency trach change on the floor of her bedroom. After a minute or so of “bagging” her through the new trach tube, she started breathing on her own again and her oxygen saturation was back to normal. That’s when the EMTs came in. Winona rode up to the ER with Lydia, and I followed in the car. (Webster Groves’s finest stopped me for going 41 in a 30, but they let me go.)
Lydia stayed the morning and afternoon back on the 7 East ward at SLCH. She hadn’t been in her room for 30 seconds—she was still being connected to the wall oxygen—when she signed to one of the nurses who knew her, “Signing Time.” “Only Lydia,” the nurse laughed, and explained that she would need to wait to watch her favorite DVD. Two Little Hands Productions would love a video clip of that scene for promotional purposes.
Anyway, she stayed the morning and afternoon with no more excitement, and is back at home.
The worst of it was that two separate people in the hospital said something about how we had done well considering “this was your first time.”
We really don’t ever want a second time.
Friday, March 25, 2011
Life at home
Lydia, and her pulse oximeter and portable suction machine and an emergency kit and a small oxygen bottle, came home Tuesday as reported previously on this site. That night we had a couple of mysterious (fortunately very brief, as in <30 seconds) episodes of dramatic oxygen desaturation right after we hooked her up to the ventilator for the night. During these episodes the anxiety level in the home was very high as two people with graduate degrees, plus Charissa, who's in grad school, tried to urgently troubleshoot a home ventilator that had supposedly just been put together and checked out by the home health people earlier that night. (The air was not flowing due to a connection that had not been connected.) Then around oh-dark-thirty after numerous alarms, Winona talked to the helpful on-call nurse and the home health equipment on-call people and learned all about the effects on alarm sensors of condensed water in the air hoses. The next morning Lydia was needing 3-4 L/min of O2 rather than the 0.5-2 L/min she’d needed in the hospital, she looked somewhat lethargic, and her temperature was 101°F.
But long story short, by that evening, and perhaps thanks to a dose of Cipro called in by her pulmonary nurse practitioner, she was back to her usual self and has been fine ever since. At the moment I'm sitting beside Lydia’s crib because Winona needs a break, and Lydia’s asleep breathing 0.5 L/min O2 on the ventilator with 99-100% oxygen saturation. All has been fairly uneventful since Tuesday night. Well, except for the EPA Superfund diaper clean-up yesterday morning—nothing out of the ordinary. (Thank you, Winona, for turning down my halfhearted offer to take care of it!) We are kind of sort of back to normal around here, except for jumping up in the night if anything beeps for more than 2 or 3 seconds. And needing to take a small caravan if we want to take Lydia anywhere. And suctioning yucky stuff from her trachea.
Tuesday, March 22, 2011
Lydia hospital day 62 ... Homecoming!
To celebrate, she rejected her grapes and even her pancake, fussed over her chest PT treatment, spit out her Ativan twice, refused her pants, socks and shoes, and interfered with her blood pressure measurement. But she ate her scrambled eggs and took her other meds. Hey, she’s 3 now, so I suppose she’s acting like a typical 2-year-old.
We can’t wait to see her safely installed at home. Most of her new medications from the hospital will be stopped by mid-April, and by the end of May we will have a good idea of how completely her lungs have healed and how long we can expect her to need supplementary oxygen.
Thank you again to all of you who have prayed for us or helped us in one way or another. Hooray!
Sunday, March 20, 2011
Lydia hospital day 60
Starting at 2 a.m. this morning she was breathing room air on the ventilator. They cut back on her albuterol dosing so she doesn't need to get it at night and gets less during the day. During the day she had her “talker” on (Passey-Muir valve) so she could talk. She went to the rooftop garden and liked swinging on the glider thingy for a while.
We are getting excited about getting Lydia—and her train—back at home with us. Traveling, even around the block, will now become a real production. . . . Until her lungs finish healing, anyway.