Monday, October 31, 2011
dobar dan from Zagreb!
Sestra Black
Monday, October 24, 2011
from Ariana, 24 Oct 2011
So, I forgot to say an important bit of news last week. When President Rowe came last sunday and did interviews, he asked how I felt about doing an exchange to Slovenia. Probably in 2 or so weeks, I`m going to Ljubljana for a week. Crazy. I figured we wouldn`t ever get to do exchanges because we`re so far away from the other sisters in the mission. There are 4 in Slovenia and 2 in Zadar, on the coast of croatia, and the 2 of us in Osijek, but it takes like 8 hours to get to Zadar. and we never interact with Slovenia. It might as well be another mission. so I figured it would never happen. and I don`t even know Slovene. granted, I don`t know Croatian either, but more than Slovene. I can`t even say the word Ljubljana. This sunday we taught primary to Filip (who is 8 or 9 and baptized) and his cousin (who isn`t a member), and we were talking about Ammon and King Lamoni, and when we said the word ˝kralj˝ (king), they corrected us about 10 times, and then taught us the Croatian alphabet. I just can`t make the sound. It`ll probably be a while before I can say ˝lj˝ well enough that they stop giving me alphabet lessons. Oh well. that, and the difference between č and ć, are going to give me headaches.
anyways, I`m really excited about the exchange. So on thursday, we went to Serbia for zone conference. last time was just a training meeting. This time the AP came, and Sister Rowe was going to come, but then she couldn`t. It was very good. The branch president`s wife there in Sremska Mitrovica made Elder Adams promise that we`d go see them before we left. fortunately, they live next door to the church. Apparently, there used to be Sister Missionaries there in Beograd or somewhere close before the war, wherever she was living at the time. She was so excited to see us, and she told President that they should send sisters to actually work in Serbia. I figured there wouldn`t ever be sisters in Serbia while I was out, but now, I`m not sure. There`s a new sister coming out in January, and another 2 in March. President`s trying to get another one so we don`t have an odd number. or have a Croatian serve a mini mission here to be companions with one of them. My guess is that one set will go in Zagreb, but the other set? They could very well go to Serbia or Bosnia or somewhere completely different. There`s only one other city in Croatia that I know of that`s ever had sisters in it. Very interesting stuff. We`ll see what happens. We weren`t expecting any more sisters until Sister Creager and Sister Milius go home next September.
On Monday, we met a member named Zoran. He`s been living on the coast, so he hasn`t been in Osijek for like a year or something. He`s awesome though. If you look through the area book, his name is all over it because he helps so much in missionary work. and he`s a righteous priesthood holder. We had 2 native Croatians blessing the sacrament! it`s awesome. He was planning to move to Zagreb and transfer his records there, and when we told President that he was planning on moving, he said ˝tell him he can`t move. The Lord needs him in Osijek˝. On sunday, Zoran told us that he had gotten a job, so he`s staying in Osijek. The funny thing was that he wasn`t even looking for a job. Interesting how that happens, huh?
Speaking of sunday, we had an investigator at church. A girl named Ivona from the Elders` advanced english class is very interested in the church. The elders gave her a Book of Mormon, and she`s been reading it. Her mom is in our beginners class, and she broke her leg, so we went over there to visit, and we talked about what Ivona had read in the Book of Mormon, and we gave her some things to read and invited her to come to our activity on friday. She noticed a picture in our church of Jesus that she loved. She says that our church feels more like church should feel than the big cold cathedrals, and asked if we had a midnight mass for christmas because she said she`d rather come to our church. We told her we didn`t, but that we had church services every week on sunday that she could come to, and that Sister Creager was even giving a talk in Croatian. She said she`d come, and on sunday she said she`d try to come every week. She said that she liked the meeting, but that the talk by a native speaker seemed longer than necessary.
This week Marijana`s been in the hospital. that place is scary. We`ve gone over to visit a few times, and the elders took her the sacrament to her on sunday. I hope she gets better soon. It doesn`t sound fun to be in that place. A male nurse drew on her hand while she was sleeping with her markers. Creepy, huh? things like that don`t happen in american hospitals. And apparently, the only thing they give her most of the time is tea, coffee, and weird bread. and they get mad at her for not drinking her coffee. luckily she has her own juice and people bring her other food.
Elder Schouten is in Serbia for the week, so Elder Jacobsen is here. It`s interesting. He actually knows Croatian, but people still tell him to speak english. it`s not just us. It`s weird. Like just now, Sister Creager`s keyboard wasn`t working, so I asked the guy at the desk if we could switch it with another one, and he acted offended that I spoke in Croatian and assumed he didn`t know english. People do things like that all the time. It definitely makes it harder to learn the language.
anyways, it`s been a pretty good week. I hope you`re having a wonderful day. I love you all, and God loves you infinitely more.
love,
Sestra Black
Saturday, October 22, 2011
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Monday, October 17, 2011
from Sister Black of The Adriatic Mission
Hi! How are you?
It`s been a good week. especially yesterday. Monday evening we met with Ivana, a lovely 27ish yr old searching for more direction from God in her life. It`s been hard to meet with her because she`s uncomfortable with having her roommate there when she talks about religion, and she`s afraid of church buildings. It was a little disappointing because she feels too busy to read the book of mormon, too scared to go to church, and doesn`t think it`s worth our time for us to meet any more. So that was disappointing.
We were going to go to Serbia on Wednesday, but we got a call from the elders on tuesday night that we weren`t having it anymore. we didn`t believe them at first because sister creager is [very trusting], so they tease us sometimes, and that seemed more likely than that president would cancel it after we had already bought bus tickets, just the night before, but it was real. so, we`re going on this thursday instead. Oh well. On thursday, one of our english students brought us gunja (quinces). We`d never seen them before. they`re like apples, but a little more like pears, and a little more sour. they`re greenish yellow, and both the top and bottom sort of look like the bottom of an apple. they`re a little bigger than apples on average I think. on the coast they`re called dunja, which is probably closer to what Charissa might know them as. I dunno. we cut them in half, put butter and brown sugar on them, and baked them. it was yummy.
Saturday we visited a member named Kristina and her 2 kids, Ana and Luka. Kristina said she`d come to church and translate for president rowe for branch conference, but then she was sick. it was very sad. I love her and those kids. her kids need church.
Sunday was awesome. President Rowe came for branch conference. When elder genther read the sustaining names, it was much shorter than usual because it was just the general authorities, President Rowe, Brother Smart, and Elder Genther. That`s what happens if you don`t have a stake or any branch auxiliaries or anything. Sister Rowe (President`s mother), and Sister Turner, who are serving as senior sister missionaries, came as well. Sister Rowe was awesome. She went up to every single person at church and figured out what their family situation was like, how they needed to grow in the gospel, and then started to help them to get there. I wish we could always have her here. She just went around being everyone`s grandma. She made a deal with Alen that if he worked on learning about the priesthood, she`d work on croatian, and in 2 months, she`ll come back and check on him and see his progress. She knows how to say ˝Ja sam Baka Rowe˝ (I`m Grandma Rowe), but that`s about it. She`s trying really hard to learn it though. it`s cute.
We had 19 people at church yesterday--6 local members, 6 non-members, and 7 missionary type people. That may not sound like a lot, but it`s a record since I`ve gotten here. member and non-member attendance multiplied by 6 from last week. most people will never be able to say that. President should come every week.
Oh, about the subject-- yes, the name of my mission has been changed from the Slovenia/Croatia mission to the Adriatic Mission. The boundaries and everything are still the same right now, but they thought that name was better. Our mission used to have 7 or so countries, the ones on the adriatic coast under Croatia, Slovenia, Serbia, Bosnia... I don`t remember exactly which ones, maybe macedonia, i don`t remember, but then they were taken out, and right now we only have young missionaries in Slovenia, Croatia, and Serbia. We have a senior couple in Bosnia, and it seems very likely that young missionaries will be put there soon. about the other countries, I`m not sure, but we`ll see. It`s an exciting time for The Adriatic Mission.
I love you all!
Sestra Black
Monday, October 10, 2011
Hey everyone
Croatian phrases to answer the phone:
Molim- it means like a bajillion different things. please, you`re welcome, I ask/request, etc... It`s the most common way to answer the phone as far as i can tell.
reci mi- talk to me
slušam- I`m listening
halo- hello
Love you all, hope you`re doing well.
Love, Sestra Black
Monday, October 3, 2011
week 5 in Croatia
On monday for FHE [Family Home Evening /kjb], marijana taught us a croatian game sort of like scattergories. it was so hard to think of croatian words that fit into the catagories. She beat all of us missionaries like 150 to 50ish. I got 2nd or 3rd place though.
On tuesday, for our spiritual thought for english class, we talked about the book of mormon, and a really cool man from ukraine talked to us afterwards. It`s so frustrating to not be able to communicate. He didn`t quite understand what we were saying. so frustrating. It`ll be nice when we actually know the language. He didn`t come back to english class thursday. He`s the only one we lost though, which is good. I wish people could understand what the book of mormon is, and how important it is. If only I could get people to read one chapter with an open heart, like 3 Nephi 17 or 2 Nephi 11 or Alma 32, before completely dismissing it as blasphemy, that would be awesome. The book of mormon testifies of Christ and brings people closer to him. I wish people weren`t so quick to condemn something they don`t know anything about. One thing we`re trying to do in our branch is challenge them to read the book of mormon by the end of the year. I don`t know if anyone besides us missionaries will do it, but hopefully it will at least encourage them to take it off their shelf.
After our intermediate class, one of the members, Vera, came and talked to us for a while about how she`s so busy, so she can`t fulfill her calling, and it`s useless anyways, because she`s in charge of fhe, and we never have more than like 5 non-missionaries come anyways. I wish we could help the members here realize how important it is that they start trying to help out the branch and do what they can to support it. If the missionaries had to be taken out Osijek, the church would not exist. The church is important to them, but they expect us to always feed it to them. that`s not how God wants his kingdom to work. He wants everyone, and every community to be self-reliant as much as they can. right now we`re trying to figure out how to teach the branch to fish instead of just giving them fish, spiritually. Dad, you probably have some experience with people not seeing why they needed callings and not wanting to do them. any advice?
On saturday, we watched conference with Lidia and her son, Alen. Her daughter, who isn`t actually a member, stayed for 2 talks, which was more than I was expecting. I love spending time with Lidia. I wish the elders would spend more time trying to teach Alen the importance of the priesthood. It would be so awesome for Lidia to have a priesthood holder in her home. I wish there were more that we could do to make that happen.
On sunday, we had normal church because conference isn`t until 6, and we don`t have a way to watch any of the old sessions during that time. We watched the morning session of conference at the house of one of the elders` investigators. It turned out that Lidia expected us to come over again, but we had misunderstood, because she originally said we couldn`t come because she wanted to watch it in Hungarian, because that`s her native language. Again, it would be nice if we could understand and speak croatian better. We felt really bad about that because she was waiting for us and had trouble getting it to work. She eventually got it working, but we felt bad that she was waiting for us.
Marijana has been really sick, so we didn`t have seminary this week. Lea was sick too, so we didn`t get to see her either.
I`m excited to see what this week brings.
Love you!
sister black
Monday, September 26, 2011
3 pictures from Osijek
"I wish I had some of people, but all my pictures got deleted, so that`s all you get. enjoy! love, Sestra Black"
26 September 2011
Last p-day after emails, we had a picnic by the river with the elders, and it started to rain. It was fun, but Sister Creager was not happy to be wet and cold. oh well. For our activity for FHE we taught some american card games, and they taught us a croatian one. That was fun.
This week, Marijana called the elders and said she would give a talk in church. That was awesome, and really surprising because she`s really shy with things like that. She did very well, as far as I could tell. I couldn`t understand most of what she said because she was nervous and talked super fast. I know she talked about the Atonement, and shared John 3:16-17 and the scripture where Jesus forgives the soldiers who crucified him. We talked about the fall and how the atonement overcomes it in seminary this week. She continues to ask good questions and learn from the scriptures. Her friend, Marina, finally has agreed to let us teach her seminary, so we`ll have 2 students. I hope this means she`s not prejudiced against us anymore and will start coming back to church eventually. She was really mad last transfer when the elders she liked were taken out and sisters were put in Osijek, and she hasn`t come to church since.
I`m excited for general conference. I asked one of the members if we could watch it in their house because the church doesn`t have internet, so we`ll at least get to watch the two morning sessions Saturday and Sunday night. not that we`ll understand much of them, but at least most of the translators are american return missionaries, so they should be easier to understand than croatians. It`ll be a while before we get to watch the other sessions. So, all you people in america should take full advantage of how easy it is to watch conference there, and actually pay attention and watch all the sessions. let me know what people talk about, especially in the evening sessions, because I won`t get to watch those at all for a while.
On wednesday, we went to Danaja`s (one of the members) house, and she wasn`t there for 15 minutes or so, so we talked to her parents, who aren`t members, and usually don`t want anything to do with us, from what sister creager says. Danaja`s father got us some figs from his tree, and used his cane to get the branches down to pick the figs. it was pretty great. they were yummy figs.
Once this week we split this huge pizza with the elders that was probably 3-3.5 ft in diameter. it was practically bigger than the table. it was great.
On Sunday, during sunday school, a member from Bosnia that we didn`t know existed came to church. His name was Jakov, and he was just dropping by on his way home from sweeden or somewhere. so that was interesting.
Oh, we also got the ˝daughters in my kingdom˝ book about relief society. I heard about it in the mtc, but i figured we wouldn`t get them for a long time. I really wish they had them in Croatian. It would be great for the members here.
Fun word etymology: the word for decision is odluka. od means from, and luk means harbor (as well as onion and bow, like a bow and arrow, but that`s irrelevant to this). so odluka means ˝from the harbor˝, so once you make a decision, you`re sailing off from the harbor... yeah, that was a fun connection to make.
Well, have a wonderful week. love you!
Sister Black
Monday, September 19, 2011
Another day
Lydia looks great but the docs want to keep her one more night to make sure she will be OK at home. She's getting tired of being here, though.
Serbia
This week had some interesting things. On Tuesday while we were watiting for the tram, we ran into a drunk pentecostal who was telling us all about how the pentecostal church was the first church, and how we don`t have the gift of tongues or healing in our church, and how Joseph Smith added to the bible, etc. We just let him rant for a bit and didn`t really say anything or answer his questions because he didn`t want to hear what we had to say, and he was being really argumentative, so he wouldn`t have listened anyways. We just told him that we knew that the book of mormon was true and that it is a witness that God loves all of his people, and then luckily the tram came, so we just said ˝thanks for sharing what you believe. Have a good day˝ and then left. I`m sure he thought we just didn`t have any answers to why our church isn`t like the pentecostal church or why we believe what we do, but he wouldn`t have listened to anything we could say to defend why our church isn`t of the devil like he was saying. That was interesting.
On Wednesday, we met a woman named Ivana, who the missionaries had been teaching a few years ago, but then she got busy and just stopped having lessons. We ended up on the opposite side of town trying to find her house because there`s a street with the same name as the group of apartments where she lives. so she came and rescued us in her car. She gave us really good icecream. She asked us about how to get direction from God in our lives because she has a hard decision to make about her career. We talked to her about faith and revelation from prayer and scripture study. It was good.
Thursday, we went to Serbia for a zone conference. The 4 of us in our district left on a bus in the morning, and about 30 min from Osijek, Elder Genther realized that he didn`t have his passport, which is sort of important if you`re going to a different country, so they got off the bus at Vukovar and went back to Osijek, and then came back on another bus. so that left me and sister Creager alone on a bus to Serbia. Just before we crossed the border, we asked the bus driver when our stop was, because we didn`t want to miss it and go all the way to belgrade. He was surprised and wondered how we had even gotten tickets on that bus to sremska mitrovic, because the bus didn`t even stop there. He told us there was a stop close to there, and he could drop us off there, but it was just this little gas station on the side of the highway. We called the elders there in sremska mitrovic, and they came to the stop to pick us up. We were very happy to see them. It`s not fun to be lost in a country where you barely speak any of the language. The conference was good, and lots of fun. 3 of the 6 Serbian elders (Elder Adams, Defreitas, and Armond) were with me in the mtc, so it was like a little reunion. Before, when there were only 2 elders in Serbia, they were just part of the Croatian Zone, so this was the first time ever, as far as I know of, that sisters have gone to Serbia at all. This was my first zone conference, so I was never used to anything else, but sister creager kept saying how weird it was that we only had the 10 of us there, and that we couldn`t see the rest of the missionaries in Croatia.
Seminary with Marijana was once again a highlight of the week. She showed us how she had found answers to some questions of hers in the scriptures without us leading her to a specific chapter or anything, so that was really cool. She`s so much fun to teach because she has really good insights and she loves the gospel. Elder Genther is trying to get her to give a talk in church, but she`s too nervous to speak in front of people. It`s sort of sad, because any talk she gave would be better than having the branch always just listening to us missionaries trying to communicate in our broken croatian.
Yesterday I spoke in church. This was the first time I`ve written out everything I was going to say for anything since the 1st week of the mtc, but I figured it was better on the people`s ears if I wrote it out first. I had Marijana correct it so it would actually make sense and be grammatically correct. I talked about testimony. I think it went ok.
Well, that`s pretty much all the important stuff for this week. I love you all. I hope you have an amazing week!
Love, Sestra Black
Sunday, September 18, 2011
Doing better
Saturday, September 17, 2011
Back in
Lydia's in the SLCH ER; plan is for her to go up to the PICU. Probably H. flu pneumonia. She's already had a dose of antibiotic, and we'll see but likely she'll start improving soon. She's also had a priesthood blessing.
Winona wants to stay with her today. Kids at home are OK.
P.s. before this week, she's been fine, with no vent, no lung or heart meds, & no oxygen for the past month.
Monday, September 12, 2011
Hello
Things are going well here in Osijek. Things I forgot from last week: 1. did you know that Croatians drive on the right side of the street like Americans? I would`ve expected them to drive on the left, like brittish. 2. I`d take St. Louis`s restaurants over Croatia`s any day. 3. Most people speak English at least somewhat. If we start speaking to them in Croatian, they almost always say, ˝It`s ok, you can say it on English˝. In Croatian, it`s ˝na Engleskom˝, and na means on. 4. I didn`t say anything about my trainer really. Sister Creager is pretty great. She has brown hair and brown eyes, and looks a little bit like pictures of mom when she was younger. The day I arrived in Croatia, we were wearing similar outfits, and the Rowes´ 6 yr old twins said that they had a hard time telling which of us was which. At church on Sunday, one of the elders started talking to me as if I were sister Creager because I was doing something with my back to them, and our hair was done similarly. She loves to laugh, and she loves to talk. She knows the scriptures pretty well and always has good ideas for object lessons and such. It`s a little weird finally teaching with a sister though after being with just elders for 2 months.
Guess what! We`re going to Serbia this week for a leadership training meeting. That should be fun. I`m excited. I didn`t think I`d ever go there, but since we`re now in the Serbian zone, and there are 6 Serbian elders and 4 of us in our district, we`re going there instead of having them come to Croatia.
Seminary with Marijana is great. it was one of the highlights of our week. We watched a clip from the seminary video with little kids talking about the old testiment, and how it isn`t as boring or complex as people sometimes make it. It`s pretty funny. I`d highly recommend it. We then talked about the plan of salvation, and she had some amazingly deep questions about it, about what happens if you are exalted and your husband isn`t, about what happens to children who die when they`re young, about the nature of God... lots of really deep questions, some of which we couldn`t answer to her satisfaction without going into theoreticals. We told her though that God loves each of his children, and he gives them each a chance to get all of the same blessings, no matter what their situation is in this life. I don`t know the answer to everything, but I know that God knows what he`s doing, and everything He does is to give us more joy and happiness.
I`m giving my first talk in church this week. Sister Creager and I are also giving the sunday school lesson. That`s what we get for having a small branch. This week we had Božo, Marijana, Lidia, and Vera. Vera is one of the most active members, but she`s been on vacation, so I hadn`t met her yet.
On Friday for aktivnost, we played that game where you write a sentence, pass the paper to the next person, they draw a picture and cover the sentence, and the next person writes a sentence based on the picture and covers the picture, etc. It was a lot of fun. The members had fun reading our poor croatian. At one point, I wanted to use a verb that I knew was irregular, stajati-to stand, but I didn`t know how to conjugate it, so I just pretended it was a regular verb because Elder Schouten was on my left, and I figured he would recognize the verb, but he wouldn`t know any better than me, and he wouldn`t know if I said something completely different than I meant to on accident. I was right. It turns out staja is a stable or a stall or something, but Elder Schouten read it as ˝he stands˝, so it worked. It was a lot of fun. My sentence was something like ˝Vodenikonji jedu misionare, jer nisu održali zapovijedi Boga˝. We made chocolate chip cookies for it. they were pretty good.
We`ve been really excited that Lidia`s son, Alen, has been coming to church and activities the last couple weeks. It would be great if we could get a non-missionary priesthood holder in this branch. unfortunately though, I think his improved attendance has a little too much to do with him thinking my companion`s cute, so we`ve had to be careful about how much encouragement we give him. We`ll see how things go with him.
We have 2 new investigators: Lily and her daughter, Lea. We`re helping Lea with her english as well. They invited us to eat lunch with their family last Sunday after only really meeting us once. I like them very much.
Mom- thanks for sending the blog address. Give Lydia a hug for me. I hope the surgery goes well.
Jon- I hope auditions for Peter Pan go well. The most popular icecream shop here is called Petar Pan. So far, I`ve gotten: nutela and pistašio, tamna čocolata (dark chocolate) and stračjatela (or however they spell it here), višnija (cherry) and čocolata višnija. They`ve all been very good. I usually do ˝pola pola˝ (half and half) so I can get twice as many flavors.
Will and Rose- good luck with college applications. those aren`t very fun.
Thanks for the emails and prayers.
Have a wonderful week everyone!
Love, Sestra Black
Monday, September 5, 2011
Croatia!!!
The next most active person probably is Božo. except he`s not a member. because he`s Catholic. He`s funny. He always gives elaborate hellos and goodbyes, and he`s always way excited to talk to everyone. Our branch president is Starješina Genther. He was in the MTC with my trainer, sestra Creager, and they`ve both been out here 2 transfers, and today is their 4 month mark in the country. The other elder here is Starješina Schouten. I think that`s how it`s spelled, but I don`t know. it`s pronounced scout-in. He never wears a nametag because he only has a Serbian one because he was supposed to be in Serbia, and his Croatian badge hasn`t come yet. and people here in Osijek hate serbians. It`s weird having the whole church be run by us. It`s a little different of an experience than having a ward with a bajillion callings. Especially for fast sunday. we all have to bear our testimony and take up the whole block. I`ll be giving a lot of talks here. Yesterday, Lidija bore hers as well, so it was nice to have one testimony in real croatian. Her children, Alan and Lydia (we call her ´mala (little) Lydia´ to tell them apart) came as well, and they don`t usually, so that was nice. They`re about 20 and 17. We`re starting seminary tomorrow with Marijana and her non-member friend, Marina. I`m pretty excited about that. School started yesterday, so the trams this morning were horrible.
I`ve had a horrible cough for the past 2 weeks or so, and it`s driving me crazy.
On friday, we had an activity (aktivnost) where we played signs. A member named Kristina and her kids, Ana and Luca, who are 7 and 9 i think, and adorable, came. Marijana and her friend Filip were also there. It was a lot of fun. Luca didn`t quite get the game, so whenever we asked if he was it, he`d have to ask his mom ˝Jel´ sam?˝ (am I?) or something like that, and he and Ana ended up sort of playing their own game in the middle of ours. it was funny.
Have a wonderful week. Volim vas!
Tuesday, August 30, 2011
safe in Croatia
love,
Ari
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